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Daddyhood

noah_open_shirtWell, this is what being a new dad will do to you. I haven’t posted since July 2008 and I’ve let derekelkins.com lapse for months (even though I’m still paying for it). I promise I’ll try to be better.

Perhaps a good way to get back into this is to synposize the last 6 months of my life:

August: I turned 28!! How did that happen? I got a new job at the Theological School at Drew University. I’m working as the Theological Admissions Officer and I have business cards. Kat and I celebrated 5 years being married! She’s still sexy.

September: I didn’t go to church the whole month. After 28 years of weekly attendance, I needed a break (the break’s not over). This is the first time in YEARS that I haven’t been in school. I decided to take a hiatus from the Master of Divinity program to work full-time and prepare for the baby.

October: Birthing classes. Sweet lord, those were boring. I enjoyed the hospital tour and we met a really nice German couple who had a little girl. Our baby was due on October 26. He was a no-show.

November: Noah is born! Holy moly, labor is intense!! Noah is beautiful and such a blessing. Parenthood is scary and hard as hell.

December: Kat and I committed to go to church during the whole of Advent. We almost made it. Noah’s first Christmas we spent in NC with my family. It was a great holiday bookended by hella-long drives.

January: Kat started back to classes. Noah started daycare. I started going insane from lack-of-sleep. Happy 2009.

February: I bought a banjo! I’m trying to connect Noah with his hillbilly roots. Still no church. Starting to miss parts of it.

March: TBD

2 Comments »

  Scott wrote @

Hey man, hang in there!! Before you know it you’ll be sleeping almost 5 hours straight!! (and wondering how you managed before!)

I’m glad I have a local sleep-deprived ally.

…and ummm, let’s get some coffee and throw that other site back online :)

  Shaunda Freeman wrote @

Hi Derek…I know you won’t remember me but I knew Wade pretty well. I have a baby born just after yours, (hes my second, but my daughter is 8 and I think I forgot about the sleepless nights) how is he doing now?

It was great seeing your website and catching up with what your doing, I am glad God has given you a life that is full of blessings.


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